Sometimes, you just want those moments back. The time when you walked her to the car, and you were nervous about leaning in for the kiss; when you couldn't wait to be around this person because you lived separately, and when you two were there together, you didn't want to leave, but her Grandma was due back at anytime. There's an instinct in you that wants to place the blame on something, when the place you need to look is the Man in the Mirror. Yes, life does takes its toll on many aspects and situations that occur, but excuses have to go out of the door, and the romance has to come through it because those opportunities for sparks to fly can come from any direction. There was a time when woman hit on me (and it does occasionally happen) that I would highly consider taking the leap, and just the thought of that got me into a lot of trouble. Now years older, or a week later, I understand that when you allow your mind to leap into that evilness, of lightweight seduction, you collapse into a world of lies, covering and hiding, and the best thing to do is... Well, I don't know what the best thing to do is, but I do know that you have to get out of it, and telling the partner that you trust what is going on will allow you not to fall to the temptation. Find ways to create that spark in your own ball of love and follow through because many talk and think, but actions speak louder. All I really just said is when it gets boring, its up to you to spice it up, don't cheat or be dishonest in any way, and if you're gonna be with someone you love, then be with someone you trust the same.